We are a nation where everybody loves passionate rough sex. In my opinion, women are bigger fans of rough sex than men. The line is thin, and you can barely feel it, but it is there.
The things that made women like rough sex are mostly erotic books. We all remember how it was with Fifty Shades of Gray, and porn is also in a full swing when it comes to rough sex. Mainstream media is a place where the talk about rough sex is constant, so I don't understand why people have anything against it. It is okay not to love it, and I mean, we are not all the same. But, why is a disgusted look on people's faces when rough sex is mentioned? Rough sex is present everywhere. People fantasize, talk, write and watch everything about rough sex, and still, some people are repulsed by it. It is not like someone asked you if you popped this morning. This is like a Bermuda triangle for me.
Of course, women are also influenced by spicy movies, and there are a lot of reasons why they want to try it or replace vanilla sex with it. First, they want to satisfy their fantasies or fantasies of their partner. Perhaps, rough sex sounds fun to her, or she is bored, and she wants to try new things. Or maybe it's all about her love for the pain and letting her partner have an upper hand. Either way, women like rough sex and I think it is time we all accept it. And, women, don't ever feel embarrassed or ashamed to admit that you love romantic rough sex videos.
As I said, some women were so intrigued by the book Fifty Shades of Gray, they developed the fantasy of being tied up. Then again, some people like my sister, don't like those things. Her level of anxiety reaches the skies when she is tied down, and she doesn't like to wear a collar. She feels suffocated and like a dog. Rough sex at some point needs trust to succeed. And I guess my sister doesn't have that in her. And, also she hates to call someone master or daddy. She immediately feels like a slave or like she is having sex with our dad. Yes, I know, it is gross. I don't like to be restrained either. I mean I can bear it, but I am always a little worried. Furthermore, I prefer it when a man or woman pins me down with my hands and then does the magic.
Rough romantic sex videos are not complicated as it sounds, I promise. You need to figure out a level of roughness that suits you the best, and then you will enjoy it. So, to achieve that, you need to communicate with your partner. Tell him your desires and your deepest fantasies. If you already tried romantic rough sex videos with your partner and something happened that you didn't like, you should tell him. Make a compromise, so everyone's needs are fulfilled. That is the key to a good relationship and an even better sex life. I never talked with my boyfriends about what I like and don't like. I would tell them to spank me or pull my hair in the middle of sex. Over time, they got used to it, and there wasn't a need for me to keep telling them what to do. Especially, if you are having sex with a stranger. Rough sex is something that implies. You surely won't make love with them. My point is, don't be like me. Talk with your partner and try not to have sex with strangers. You know how they say, a stranger is a danger.
Rough sex will lead you to an amazing experience, and it will broaden your horizons. There isn't anything more fulfilling when from time to time, you let your wild side out. Of course, in bed, not in public. We don't want people to think that you have gone mental. But don't be afraid to try it. It will upgrade your relationship and your life.
And, make a mental note not to be disgusted with yourself. If sex was good, you will probably look and feel like you were hit by the truck. You will also end up with smeared makeup, disheveled hair, and covered in all kinds of fluids. And, there is the most beautiful pain in the world, soreness. Every part of your body will hurt you but believe me it is tolerable and somehow pleasurable. There is also aftercare that you can practice after rough sex. If the pain is too much for you to bear, relax in a lavender bath and ease the pain with painkillers. When the pain subsides, you will come back for more, and that is a promise.